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újdyhg iQodkï jk hQj;shla ta i|yd wjYahh foa ,l ,eyeia;s lr.kafka fndfydu ld,hl b|,d' ta ;rïu jeo.;a fohla .ekhs fï l;d lrkak hkafka'
újdy fjkak iQodkï jk hQj;shla ffjoaho Wmfoia me;Su;a b;du;a jeo.;a' wvQu ;rñka újdyhg udi 3 muK fmr fyda ffjoahjrfhl= fj; f.dia fofokdgu jeo.;a jk ffjoahv Wmfoia ,nd .ekSu b;du jeo.;a'

fuh jeo.;ajkafka újdyh;a iu. .; hQ;= ffjoahhuh ;SrK lsysmhla we;s ksihs' thska jeo.;au ldrKh orefjla ,nd .ekSu' 

.¾NkS;djhl§ we;s úh yels wdl+, õhdil+,;djka wju lr.ekSug yels wjia:d ;sfnkjd' ta ksid fï ldrKd .ek oek .ekSu wjYahdhs' újdy ùug isák hQj<la we;eï úg orejkag n,mdk cdkuh maruYak ;sfnkjd' fï cdk mshdf.a fjkakg mQ¿jka' ke;skï ujf.a cdk fjkakg mQ¿jka' we;eï úg fofokdf.au fjkakg mQ¿jka'

 fï jf.a ;;a;ajhl§ tu hQj< w;r újdyh isÿúh hQ;=o keoao lshk ldrKh mjd ;SrKh lrkakg mQ¿jka l,a we;sj mÍlaIKhla lr.;af;d;a' ,xldfõ ;sfnk nyQ,u cdk wdYaÍ ; frda.hla ;uhs ;e,iSñhd frda.h we;eï ldka;djka bkakjd TjQkag ;e,iSñhd frda.h keye' kuQ;a TjQka frda. jdylhka' we;eï úg ;uka újdy jk mQreIhd ;=<;a fï cdkh ;sfnkakg mQ¿jka' fï jf.a cdk ;sfnk fofofkla tl;= jQfKd;a WmÈk orejdg frda.h we;s fjkjd' ta ksid fujeks fofofkla tl;= ùu iQÿiQo lsh,d ffjoahquh me;af;ka újdyhg fmr ;SrKh l< hQ;=hs'

;j;a ldrKhla ;uhs ia;aß'hlf.a me;af;ka orejkag oeäj n,mEï we;s lrk frda. ;;a;ajhka ;sfhkjd' ta ksid t;ek§;a ;SrKh lrkak ´k újdyh .ek' fuys§ újdy ùug ndOdjla we;sjkafka kE' kuQ;a újdyhla ;=<ska wms n,dfmdfrd;a;= jk orefjla ,nd.ekSug th ndOdjla'

orejkag we;sjk markYak wereKu" ;j;a me;a;la ;sfhkjd' ta ia;aßuhg fyda mQreIhdg Wm;skau fyda miQj we;sjQ wikSm ;sfhkjd orejka ,nkakg neß' tjeks ;;a;ajhl§ fï .ek wjfndaOh we;s lr .ekSu;a jeo.;a'

Èhjeähdj" wê reêr mSvkh" yDo frda. jeks frda.S ;;a;ajhka ;sfnk ia;aß;ka isákjd' fndfyda fj,djg wms oel,d ;sfhkjd Èhjeähdj jeks frda.S ;;a;ajhka ;sfhk ldka;djka" frda.h md,kh lr.ekSu fyda ta .ek lsisÿ wjOdkhla fkdue;sjhs újdyhg iQodkï jkafka' 

wê reêr mSvkh we;s ldka;djla" Èhjeähdj we;s ldka;djlg ore ms<sis| .ekSula isÿjQfjd;a th wef.a Ôú;hg;a" orejdg;a n,mEï lrkjd' ta ksid tjeks wh ;ukaf.a frda. ;;a;ajhg ksis mar ;sldr ,nd .ekSu újdyhg fmr isgu l< hQ;=hs'

we;eï úg wd¾:j plarfha mar.Yak ;sfnk ldka;djka bkakjd' tjeks whg orejka ,eîu mudùug mQ¿jka' wms fï lshkafka fï whg orejka ,nkak nE lsh,d fkfuhs' TjQkag l< hQ;= marm;sl¾u ;sfnkjd' ta mar ;sldr ,nd .ekSfuka miQ orejka ,nkak mQ¿jka'

we;eï ia;aß" mQreIhkaf.a ,sx.sl bkaoaßrhkaj, úúO fjkialï ;sfnkakg mQ¿jka' fïjd ksjerÈ lsÍug ie;alï lsÍug mjd wjYah  fjk wjia:d ;sfnkjd' fïjd újdyhg fmr l< hQ;= foaj,a' we;eï úg l,d;=rlska ldka;djkaf.a fhdaks ud¾.fha wjysr;d ;sfnkjd' tjeks whg wd¾:jh isÿjkafka fyda u,ajr ùula isÿjkafka keye' tjeks ldka;djkag újdy úfï§ .egÆ we;s jkakg mQ¿jka' ta ksid újdyhg fmr fï i|yd mar;;sldr ,eîu fyd|hs'

fmdÿfõ iEu fofkl=gu ,nd§ug yels Wmfoila ;uhs újdyhg udi ;=klg fmr refn,a,d tkak; wksjd¾fhkau ,nd.kak' ta jf.au f*da,sla wï,h fm;s ,nd .ekSu;a jeo.;a' Èklg f*da,sla wï,h ñ,s .a?.ï 5 la muK ,nd .ekSfuka ,efnk orejdf.a iakdhQ iïnkaO frda. iïmQ¾Kfhkau jdf.a j<lajd .kakg mQ¿jka' tajf.au .íidùfï mafr;sY;h;a iEfyk marmudKhlska wvQlrkakg mQ¿jka' we;eï úg wm w;r isákjd wmiaudrh we;s frda.Ska' 

tjeks whg frda.h md,kh lsÍug T!IO j¾. fol ;=kla ,nd fokjd jkakg mQ¿jka' tjeks flfkla újdyhg iQodkï jk úg ta .ek ffjoah jrhdg oekQï § T!IO mar'udKh wvQ lr.ekSu yd jvd;a wdrlaIdldß T!IO ,nd .ekSug fhduQ úh hQ;=hs'

újdy wfmalaIs; hQj;shf.a wd¾;jh isÿjk Èkh újdy W;aijh meje;afjk Èkhg fh§ ;sfnkakg mQ¿jka' tjeks wjia:djl§ wd¾;jh mud lr.ekSu i|yd T!IO ffjoahajrfhl= fj;ska ,nd .;yelshs' ta i|yd wvQ ;rñka udihlg muK fyda fmr ffjoahT! Wmfoia ,nd .; hQ;=hs'

újdy jk fofokd ;=< ,sx.sl;ajh .ek ;sfnk wjfndaOho újdyhl§ b;du jeo.;a' ,xldfõ ixialD;sh wkQj ,sx.sl wOHdmkh .ek oekQu t;rï õhdoma; ù kE' ta ksid ;uka ys;kjd kï ;uka ;=< ksjerÈ jegySula kE lsh,d fyd|u foa ffjoahujrfhl= fj; hEuhs' ksjerÈ yd úYajdijka; Wmfoia Tng ffjoah jrfhl= fj;ska ,nd .; yelshs' ffjoah.jrfhl= fj; f.dia Wmfoia ,nd .ekSug lsisúfgl;a ,eÊcd fjkakg tmd' we;eï úg nyQ, jYfhka hQj;shka ;=< ñ:ahd  u; ;sfnkjd' m<uQ ,sx.sl tlaùu b;du fõokdldßhs lsh,d' TjQka ys;kjd' fï ksid ,sx.sl tlaùula fkdue;sj wjQreoaola folla .; l< ia;aßh mQreIhka wmg yuQù ;sfnkjd' ta ksid ffjoahl Wmfoia ,nd .ekSug ue,sjkak tmd' wkjfndaOh ksid mjQf,a marjYak we;s lr.kak tmd'

fïjdg wu;rj fjkia lr .; hQ;= ;j;a foaj,a ;sfnkjd' ;rndre flfkla kï ;ukaf.a YÍrfha nr wvQ lr .ekSug wdydr md,kh" õhd'hdu wdÈh l< hQ;=hs' ;rndrenj jeäùu" újdy Ôú;hg" idudkah, Ôú;hg jf.au ore ms<sis| .ekSu flfrys;a n,mEï lrkjd' ta ksid ffjoah  Wmfoia wkQj ;ukaf.a Yßrfha nr mj;ajd .kak' ta jf.au fuys wfkla me;a;;a fjkak mQ¿jka' l=vd isyska isrerla we;s wh;a ;ukaf.a kshñ; nr maruudKh mj;ajd .kak ´k'

we;eï úg fofokd ;=<u ;sfnkakg mQ¿jka fuf;la y÷kd fkd.;a frda.' yDoh wdYaßd; frda. Èhjeähdj" reêr mSvkh jQK;a ;ukag ;sfnkjdo lsh,d fkdoek bkakg mQ¿jka' fïjd idudkahh ffjoahs mÍlaIdjlska oek.kakg mQ¿jka'

újdy wfmalaIs; hQj<la lsisÿ frda. ;;a;ajhla fkdue;sj isákjd jQj;a ffjoahkjrfhl= fj;g .syska ;ud újdy ùug isák nj oekajQ úg ffjoahjjrhd Tn fjkQfjka wjYahg Wmfoia ,nd foaú'

fï i|yd úfYaIs; idhkhla kï oekg ,xldfõ meje;afjkafka kE' kuQ;a kdß frda. idhkhlg iyNd.sùfuka wjYaha mÍlaIK isÿlrkakg mQ¿jka' fï idhk rcfha frday,aj, meje;afjkjd'

fuys§ úfYaIfhka lsj hQ;= lreKla ;sfnkjd' ;ukaf.a mjQf,a whg fyda ;uka jdih lrk maßfoaYh wkQj cdkuh frda." ^Wod' ;e,iSñhd jeks& ;sfnkjd kï Tng mQ¿jka cdk mÍlaIdjlska fï .ek oek.kak' ;j;a fohla ;ukaf.a mjQf,a fyda <Ûu {d;sfhl=g widudkahl ore Wm;la isÿfj,d ;sfnkjd kï Tng;a tjeks wjodkula ;sfnkjdo lsh,d oek.kakg;a mQ¿jka' tjeks markYak ;sfnk flfkl= yuQjQfkd;a ta i|yd úfYaIs; Wmfoia imhk idhkj,g TjQkaj fhduQ flfrkjd'

W;=re fld<U ^rd.u& uy frdayf,a

marij yd kdß frda. úfYaI{ ffjoafhda iQks,a mafrkdkaÿ